Manners pilgrimage GRAVE AND PRAYER

Messenger of Allah said:
"Give the gift-mayitmu deceased." Then we (Companions) asked: What is the reward for the deceased? He replied: "Alms and prayer." (Mafatihul Jinan, chapter 10, p 570)
Messenger of Allah said:
"Surely every Friday souls of believers coming into the sky vertically with their home world, while each of them to call with a sad voice crying: O my family, my children, my father and my mother, my relatives, we love Allah love you with a gift that you give to us. Alas, we (as property), we are judged, others are taking advantage. "

In another Hadith the Messenger of Allah said:
"Each of them call their relatives: Our Love to dirhams or bread or clothes, Allah love you with clothing from heaven." Then the Messenger of Allah weeping. We (friends) cry, too, the Prophet was unable to speak because of the crying. Then he said: "They are your brothers in religion, they crumble to the ground after they (the world) filled with fun and enjoyment. They call the cry:" Woe to us, if we first menginfakkan our treasures in the way of obedience to God and accepting Him, surely we do not need you. "Then they go home with a loss and regret, and they exclaimed: Hurry your charity for your deceased."
Muhammad bin Muslim once asked Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq (sa): Can we make pilgrimages to the people who have meningga? He replied: Yes. Then I ask again: Do they know us when we make pilgrimages to them? He replied: "By Allah, they know you, they are happy and comforted by your presence." I ask again: What should we read when we make pilgrimages to them? He replied: read this prayer. (See the next prayer)
Imam Musa al-Kazim (sa) said:
"Those who are not able to make a beeline for us (Ahlul temple), it should make a beeline to the righteous people who berwilayah to us, it will be recorded for him as reward for our pilgrimage, and whoever is not able to connect to our friendship, then the friendship should connect the righteous people who berwilayah to us, it will be recorded for him as reward connect to our friendship. "
Imam Ali Ar-Ridha (sa) said:
"Whoever comes to the grave believing brother, and then put his hand on his tomb, and read the letter of Al-Qadr (7 times), then it will be saved on the Day of Resurrection." In another hadith says: "and facing the Qibla."
Sheikh Abbas Al-Qumi (ra) said: Pahala reading this letter to people who read it, as well as to residents of the diziarahi grave. Because it is corroborated by other traditions.
Pilgrimage makruh grave at night
About makruhnya pilgrimage to the grave of the believers in the evening, the Prophet said to Abu Dharr: "Never you make a beeline for them at night."
Adab and prayer pilgrimage grave
First: When entering the area of ​​the cemetery say hello.
Abdullah bin Sinan once asked Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq (sa): How do I say hello to residents of the grave? He said: Say:
السلام على اهل الديار من المؤمنين والمسلمين انتم لنا فرط ونحن ان شآء الله بكم لاحقون
Assalamu 'ala ahlid Diyar, minal mu'minîna wal Muslim, Lana farthun yourselves, wa nahnu insyâallâhu bikum lâhiqûn.
Greetings to the inhabitants of the grave, believers and Muslims, you have ahead of us, and God willing, we'll be right up.
Or say hello as taught by Imam Ali bin Abi Talib (sa):
السلام على اهل لا اله الا الله من اهل لا اله الا الله, يا اهل لا اله الا بحق لا اله الا الله كيف وجدتم قول لا اله الا الله من لااله الا الله, يا لااله الا الله بحق لااله الا الله اغفر لمن قال لااله الا الله , واحشرنا في زمرة من قال لااله الا الله محمد رسول الله علي ولي الله
Assalamu 'La ilaha illallah ALA member of La ilaha illallah min members, yes ahla La ilaha illallah La ilaha illallah bihaqqi kayfa wajadtum qawla La ilaha illallah La ilaha illallah min, ya la ilaha illallah La ilaha illallah bihaqqi ighfir liman Qala La ilaha illallah, wahsyurnâ Fi zumrati man Qala Rasoolullah Muhammadun La ilaha illallah 'Aliyyun Wali Allah.
Hail to the utter la ilaha illallah than say la ilaha illallah, O who say la ilaha illallah with the right la ilaha illallah, how you get la ilaha illallah of la ilaha illallah, oh la ilaha illallah with the right la ilaha illallah forgive people who reads the words la ilaha illallah, and himpunlah us down among those who Mengu cap ¬ ¬ la ilaha illallah Muhammad ur Rasululullah Aliyyun Waliyyullah.
Imam Ali bin Abi Talib (sa) said: "Whoever enters the area of ​​the cemetery, and then say (the greeting), God gives the reward goodness 50 years, and will forgive their sin and the sin of his parents 50 years."
Second: read:
1. Surat Al-Qadr (7 times),
2. Surat Al-Fatiha (3 times),
3. Surat Al-Falaq (3 times),
4. Surat An-Nas (3 times),
5. Surat Al-Ikhlash (3 times),
6. Section Chairs (3 times).
In a hadith says: "Whoever reads Soorat al-Qadr (7 times) at the grave of a believer, God sent the angel to worship him near the grave, and notes to the deceased reward of worship done by the angel that God put it into heaven. And in reading the Al-Qadr with surat Al-Falaq, An-Nas, Al-Ikhlash and Section chair, respectively (3 times). "
Third: Read the following prayer (3 times):
اللهم اني اسئلك بحق محمد وآل محمد ان لاتعذب هذا الميت
Allahumma Inni as-Aluka bihaqqi Muhammadin wa Ali Muhammad's la tu'adzdziba hâdzal may ¬ Yit. Oh God, I'm begging you to do with the right of Muhammad and the family of Muhammad's tomb occupants nor punishment.
Messenger of Allah said:
"No one who reads the prayer (3 times) at the grave of a dead person, but God keep her doom doomsday."
Fourth: Putting the hand in his grave while reading the following prayer:
اللهم ارحم غربته, وصل وحدته, وانس وحشته, وامن روعته, واسكن اليه من رحمتك يستغني بها عن رحمة من سواك, والحقه بمن كان يتولاه
Allâhumarham ghurbatahu, Shil wahdatahu wa, wa anis wahsyatahu, amen raw'atahu wa, wa askin ilayhi min rahmatika yastaghnî Biha 'an rahmatin min siwâka, Biman alhiqhu wa kama yatawallâhu.
O God, love isolation, connect solitude, comfort loneliness, tenteramkan concerns, reassure her with grace and do not, need affection from other than Thee, and susulkan he told people he loved.
Ibn Thawus said: If you want to make pilgrimages to the grave of the believers, then it should be on Thursday, if not, then the time you want, facing the Qiblah while laying hands on her grave and read the prayer.
Muhammad bin Muslim once asked Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq (sa): Can we make pilgrimages to the people who have meningga? He replied: Yes. Then I ask again: Do they know us when we make pilgrimages to them? He replied: "By Allah, they know you, they are happy and comforted by your presence." I ask again: What is the reading when we make pilgrimages to them? He replied: read this prayer:
اللهم جاف الارض عن جنوبهم و صاعد إليك أرواحهم و لقهم منك رضوانا و أسكن إليهم من رحمتك ما تصل به وحدتهم و تونس به وحشتهم إنك على كل شي ء قدير
Allahumma jâfil Ardha 'an junûbihim, wa shâ'id ilayka arwâhahum, wa laqqihim Minka ridhwânâ, wa askin ilayhim miR rahmatika MA tashilu bihi wahdatahum, wa tûnisu bihi wahsyatahum, innaka' ala Kulli syay-in Qadir.
O Allah, expand their graves, souls glorify them, tell them to thy good pleasure, tenteramkan them with your grace, grace that connects their solitude, loneliness entertaining them. Verily thou hath power over all things.
(Excerpted from the book Mafatihul Jinan, chapter 10, pp. 567-570)